I Don’t Like Mondays

It’s the first Monday of 2015 and about all I can eek out today is….

Hello!

David Paymer, Crazy People

David Paymer, the Master of “Hello” from the fabulous movie “Crazy People”.  If you haven’t seen it, do so soon!

 

While often Mondays signify the opportunity for a fresh start and can be positively viewed as a beginning, Mondays (and the Stressball Sundays leading up to the dreaded Mondays) make me nuts!

Gift Return, Mondays

In an attempt to make my 2015 less stressful and more productive, I won’t be blogging on Mondays anymore.

Tuesdays will now be my kick-start of the week.

 

Tomorrow, I’ll be sharing my #GoReIn2015 (Goals/Resolutions/Intentions for 2015) List (as I did in 2013 and 2014.   I’ll be offering a Link-Up that will be live until Jan 31st with quarterly check-in’s to help everyone who wants to participate to get all of the group support they want or need!

Because I’m sure I’m not alone on this particular Monday after the holidays and school break, I’ll give you today’s theme song, “I Don’t Like Mondays” by The Boomtown Rats.

 

 

PS – If you want to catch the fabulous movie “Crazy People”, you can purchase to stream here via Amazon (affiliate link):

Are you a Monday person naturally or if you need a ton of coffee to face the day?

Surviving and Thriving After A Fitness Injury

Hello All!  I haven’t disappeared.

I know I haven’t been posting consistently but there are some personal things that have required my undivided attention lately and it’s kept me from blogging.

However, you can find my latest post, 5 Tips to Survive and Thrive After A Fitness Injury over at Live Well 360 (yes, the awesome fitness bag company):

Live Well 360, fitness, injury recovery

I will be posting sporadically until the end of 2014 but will be back on a regular posting schedule with a totally updated site in 2015!

 

You can keep up with my more daily happenings on Instagram and Twitter until my more regular posting resumes!

Would Someone Please Explain? Answers to 50 Questions.

Skin Trade, Duran Duran, lyrics, question, 50 Questions

 

The reason for this “strange behavior” is because I saw this 50 Questions post over on Christine’s blog LoveLifeSurf (who cribbed it from Alison@WritingWishing) and I started to “wonder and asked myself the question” so I figured I’d “explain”.  I like blog memes (see here and here) and if there’s a way I can incorporate some Duran Duran into a post then why not?

 

50 Questions and Answers:

1. What are you wearing?  The cliche WAHM outfit, fitness clothing.

Yoga pants,
2. Ever been in love? Yup, still am.
3. Ever had a terrible breakup? Yes.  Enough said there.
4. How tall are you? You mean short, right?  5′ 1″
5. How much do you weigh?  Let’s just say that I’m within the healthy weight range for my height and leave it at that.
6. Any tattoos? Nope.
7. Any piercings? Two in each ear.  The first ones were done at the mall with the typical earring gun.  The second ones were done in my friend’s basement with an ice cube and an earring.  Hurt like hell.  Rite of passage though for young girls, I think.
8. OTP (one true pair, favorite fictional couple)?   Because I’m woefully under read, I’ll make this movie related – Let’s just say it wouldn’t have been Andie and Blane from “Pretty In Pink” (Duckie was too good for Andie, IMHO) so I’d say Keith and Watts from “Some Kind of Wonderful”.

Some Kind Of Wonderful

Image: Douglas Coulter

9. Favorite show? Currently: “Parenthood”‘ Past: “The Shield”, “Nip/Tuck” or “Rescue Me” just to name a few  
10. Favorite bands?  See blog tagline and yes, this is a real holiday.

Duran Duran, Duran Duran Appreciation Day

Image: Mirella Stirvani

11. Something you miss? New York City – the city, friends and restaurants
12. Favorite song? Favorite Duran song: “Hold Back The Rain”; Semi-current song: “Pompeii” by Bastille
13. How old are you? 44.5 but feeling as old as dirt
14. Zodiac sign? Aquarius (Who didn’t love this clip from the 40 Year Old Virgin?)
15. Quality you look for in a partner? Patience, understanding, intelligence and humor and my guy’s got ‘em all.

 

Wedding picture from Studio 450 NYC 5-6-00

May 6, 2000 – Studio 450

 

 

16. Favorite Quote?  From Caroline Knapp, author of “Appetites: Why Women Want”

Caroline Knapp, Appetites: Why Women Want
17. Favorite actor? Current: Robert Downey, Jr.  The man can act, sing, has a sense of humor and has both personally and professionally recovered from a very personal battle of drug addiction.  I love comeback stories.
18. Loud music or soft? Depends on my mood.
20. Where do you go when you’re sad?  The couch or bed.  Sometimes, a yoga class or a run but not often enough.
21. How long does it take you to shower? If I could live in a hot shower, I would.  Not the best thing to admit when living in a state with a ridiculous drought.  I try to limit my showers to 5-10 minutes though (I get good thinking done there).
22. How long does it take you to get ready in the morning? I’m low maintenance – 10-20 minutes.  If I need to presentable, it might take longer (make-up eludes me).
23. Ever been in a physical fight?  I have a younger sister so, yes.
24. Turn on?  Smarts
25. Turn off? Bigotry

26. The reason I started blogging? As a way to keep occupied after moving cross country while helping my son adjust to a new school.

thevalentineRD

27. Fear?  Heights and flying.  The list keeps growing as I get older, I’m Jewish so it’s expected.
28. Last thing that made you cry?  Frustration over re-injuring my back.
29. Last time you said you loved someone?   This morning as Jay dropped Wild Boy off at school.
30. Meaning behind the name of your blog? I’m born on Valentine’s Day and I’m a Registered Dietitian.  No, it doesn’t hurt that Duran Duran have the word Valentine in The Reflex though.
31. Last book you read? This Is Where I Leave You by Jonathan Tropper – thanks Allie@VitaTrain4Life for the recommendation.
32. The book you’re currently reading? The Smart Girl’s Guide To Going Vegetarian by fellow RD, Rachel Meltzer Warren.

Rachel Meltzer Warren, RD
33. Last show you watched? Veronica Mars, it’s my newest Amazon Prime addiction.
34. Last person you talked to? In person, Jay.  On the phone, Laurie.  I do a lot of virtual talking too though. 
35. The relationship between you and the person you last texted?  Jay, the boyfriend since college.  Laurie, friends since we were 5.
36. Favorite food?  Does challah count?  It is perfect but if I had to choose, I’d say good grilled shrimp or Indian food.
37. Place you want to visit?  Everywhere!  Greece would be top of the list though.
38. Last place you were? Travel-wise – Boston and NH for Reach The Beach.
39. Do you have a crush?  Hello?  See Simon Le Bon below.

Duran Duran, Simon Le Bon, Terminal 5, NYC

My photo of SLB from the 2nd row at the Duran Fan Show at Terminal 5 6/20/12

40. Last time you kissed someone?  This morning before Jay and Wild Boy went to school.
41. Last time you were insulted?  Last week with a backhanded compliment.
42. Favorite flavor of sweet?  Dark chocolate.
43. What instruments do you play?  None well unless you think “Tom Dooley” on the guitar is masterful.
44. Favorite piece of jewelry?  My diamond earrings from my first wedding anniversary, my Satya Lotus necklace,  the many pieces of jewelry made by Wild Boy or my FitBloggin’ necklace (now with a Ragnar charm).

Bam Ry, Fitbloggin'

A gift for myself

45. Last sport you played?  Yoga isn’t a sport, right?  Then a game of catch with Wild Boy.
46. Last song you sang? “Dirty Deeds” by AC/DC in the car.  Not a song you want people to hear you sing.
47. Favorite chat up line?  I’m not into picking up dates but I’m friendly enough and just introduce myself in situations where I don’t know anyone.
48. Have you ever used it?  Often.
49. Last time you hung out with anyone? Camping last weekend with friends.  7.5 is a great age.  Kids don’t have to be watched like hawks and adults can socialize for a little while.
50. Who should answer these questions next?  You and you and you.  (Can you see me pointing?)

 

What question do you normally ask people to determine whether you really like them or not? 

 

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One More Lesson

You were expecting one more lesson from Reach The Beach, weren’t you?  I planned on recapping my RTB experience today but life as a sometimes solo parent got in the way.

Plans change

 

It never fails that when Jay goes away on business that Wild Boy has some crisis that requires long and emotional discussions that leave me spent.  There are so many things that I’ve learned to endure in my 44 years on this planet but one certain 7 year old can knock me out colder than Muhammad Ali without the courtesy of a warning punch.

 

Little Humans

 

Because my Reach The Beach recap deserves more than I can give it tonight, I ask that you stay tuned until next week for full details and my 3rd Quarter check in for #14in2014 (yup, we’re nearly done with 3/4 of 2014 already!).

 

Make sure not to miss tomorrow’s Friday’s Featured Female either.  Carly@FineFitDay shares an incredible story of how unbelievable circumstances changed her life forever.

 

Happy Thursday!

 

What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever heard or read?  If it’s parenting-related, bonus points for you.

Old School Blogging – Summertime and The Living is Easy

Even though it’s perennially summer in Southern California, the summer season is coming to a close and now that Wild Boy is back at school, I can’t deny the end is here. I love the Old School Blogging prompts from Elaine@MissElaineousLife and figured I’d wrap up my summer experiences here today.

summer

What was your favorite thing you did alone this summer?

FitBloggin’ and BlogFest were two of my favorite things that I technically did alone this summer (I arrived alone and left alone but I had many old friends at both events and I got to make many new ones so I never felt alone).  If hard pressed to choose a solo activity though, I’d say my Duran Duran run was my favorite alone time this summer.

 

What was your favorite thing you did as a family this summer?

It’s hard to choose one favorite thing because we did a lot things that may not have been spectacular to others but were very meaningful to me.  We traveled to Chicago and spent some quality time with friends that left the NY area soon after we did.  Spending a simple Fourth of July a friend’s house and seeing happy kids and hanging out was really perfect.

We even had a typical California beach bonfire night that was everything a New Yorker living in LA needed to be seduced by this great city.  However, if I had to choose one thing, I’d say getting the chance to watch Wild Boy perform a Hap Kido demonstration on the Dodger Stadium field and watching the game with friends was a great memory of Summer 2014.

 

What books did you read this summer?

I’ve been slacking terribly in the book reading department.  I did finally read “The Fault in Our Stars” and some nutrition related books though.

TFIOS

 

What do you WISH you had done this summer?

I wish we could have traveled back to NYC.  I miss New York in summer tremendously.  I especially miss not being able to run on Summer Streets – 7 miles of car free roads in the middle of New York is a runners paradise.

Brooklyn Bridge, running, Kick Ass 5K, RunStrongerEveryday.com

 

People are going to hate me for saying this but I do wish that there was at least one rainy day so that we could have spent some more lazy days together as a family.

 

What movies did you see this summer (if any)?

Movies?  Like in a theater?  That rarely happens any more.  I did see “Wolf of Wall Street”, “Philomena” and “Don Jon” (which I really liked despite the somewhat uncomfortable subject matter).  I caught up on a ton of television this summer.

James Spader

James Spader Now and in Pretty in Pink.

 

I exhausted my 15 Bingeworthy Shows list so I started watching Season 1 of “The BlackList”.  Seeing how James Spader has aged reminds me just how long ago “Pretty In Pink” (my favorite movie) and “Less Than Zero” really were.  I’m choosing to remember that James Spader despite liking his new TV character.

 

Where did you travel this summer?

Chicago, Atlanta (for one night), Savannah, Augusta (for 2 hours), Anaheim and Westwood (if you live in California anywhere more than 15 miles away really is considered traveling).

 

What was your favorite treat (as in dessert) this summer?

I love ice cream but I don’t eat it often.  My favorite treats that I discovered were all alcoholic – the strawberry lemonade French Press drink at Hard Rock Cafe, discovered I can drink vodka (with lots of pineapple juice and sparkling water) and I had my first real Moscow Mule in a copper mug in Chicago.

 

What did you celebrate this summer?

Duran Duran, Duran Duran Appreciation Day

Image: Mirella Stirvani

I celebrated 2 years of living in California and Duran Duran Appreciation Day with my 2nd annual 10K.  I also celebrated turning a half year older on August 14th.  I might have cried a little.

 

Did you grow anything this summer?

My hair.  My hair is long (and is need of color – damn you grey hairs – see above answer).  My hair was pretty long back in April and I haven’t cut it since then.  (PS – It’s hard to find a more recent photo of me with my hair down).

Duran Duran, Mad World

I have a black thumb and have issues growing anything that requires sunlight and water.   I will take credit for my child growing though.  He must have grown 1-2 inches this summer and at the rate he’s going, he’ll tower over me by 5th grade.

 

What is a favorite post (if you blog) that you wrote this Summer?

As you can tell, I’m not very good at picking one favorite so I’ll keep up the trend.  I enjoyed writing my 10 Women You Need to Meet at BlogHer and BlogFest posts but I have a soft spot for my post about my favorite pieces of vintage activewear.  I loved writing about why I still have a few pieces of fitness clothes/activewear.

Rock n Roll Marathon, Iron Girl, Hind, #oldestpieceofactivewear

Iron Girl hat, Hind Leggings, Iron Girl hat day of the San Diego RnR Marathon 1999 and that medal.

 I know people keep pieces of activewear for sentimental reasons and wanted to find out why but I never started a link-up.  Let me know if you think I should.

 

What is a favorite photograph that you took this summer?

My favorite photograph would have to be this one of Wild Boy entering the Dodger Stadium field to do his Hap Kido demonstration.

 

Dodger Stadium, Hap Kido, Wild Boy

 

What do you want to do next summer?

Our good friends have a family home in France.  It would be dreamy to be able to go with my family and friends.  The only time I was in France was when I was 25 and I was alone, in Paris for only two days.  If the France trip doesn’t happen, I hope to be able to travel domestically and spend at least some time doing nothing on a beach.

 

That’s a wrap on Summer 2014 for me.

If you’re a blogger, think about joining the meme and go and check out Old School Blogging by the MissElaineousLife for future awesome prompts.  She has some great ones.  Here’s one that I liked a lot – the A to Z Meme OSB post.

 

 

What was your favorite thing that you did this summer?

 

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